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    How to Help Your Child Balance School and Extracurricular Activities

    May 23, 2019

    There was a time when young kids went to school, came home and did a little homework, then went outside to play with their friends. Their schedules were open and easy for them to handle.

    Nowadays, more and more young kids are involved in so many activities they don’t seem to have time to play in the backyard. On top of school, many kids are involved in two or three team sports, music lessons, and church activities. These kids often struggle to keep up with their school & extracurricular activity load and find themselves anxious and having trouble sleeping.

    Alvin Rosenfeld, M.D., a child psychiatrist and author of The Over-Scheduled Child: Avoiding the Hyper-Parenting Trap, believes that enrolling children in too many activities is a nationwide problem. “Overscheduling our children is not only a widespread phenomenon, it’s how we parent today,” he says.

    “Parents feel remiss that they’re not being good parents if their kids aren’t in all kinds of activities. Children are under pressure to achieve, to be competitive.”

    Kids Want to Please Their Parents

    While we may think we are doing our kids a service by signing them up for activities we think they’ll enjoy and will build character and confidence, we must understand that they may not want or be able to handle so much.

    Some of us may look back on our own childhoods with regret and dismay and vow that our kids will have more. These good intentions often turn into childhood nightmares for our kids. We mean well, but it’s just too much for them to handle.

    Here are some things parents can do to help their children balance their schoolwork and extracurricular activities:

    Lighten Up

    Parents need to lighten up and remember that childhood is supposed to be fun! There will be plenty of time to be serious when they are adults. Try to put less pressure on your child to achieve something grand, and spend more time making happy memories together.

    Understand the Benefits of Self-Direction

    Independent work and play times are highly beneficial to the developing mind and ego. Alone time also helps children process their experiences and de-stress.

    Talk to Your Child

    You won’t know if your child is struggling to keep up with his or her activities unless you talk openly with them about it. If some activities need to be removed from the schedule, work with your child to figure out which one(s) to keep and which to let go.

     

    Extracurricular activities like music, arts, and sports can definitely play an important role in your child’s development. Just make sure your child does not become overwhelmed by too many activities.

    If you’re looking for an expert to help your child manage their stress and avoid becoming overwhelmed, please reach out to me today.

     

    Sources:

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200301/the-overbooked-child

    https://www.everydayhealth.com/kids-health/balancing-school-with-extracurricular-activities.aspx

    https://childmind.org/article/finding-the-balance-with-after-school-activities/

    Filed Under: School & Academics, Sports / Exercise, Teens/Children

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